Do only men need to change their thinking?

GirlUp She-United
2 min readOct 13, 2020

We live in a society where if anything bad happens then we blame others always. There are many incidents in human life that make them strong or weak. So, the question that arises is that does society consider men and women equal? Although, society is made from us only, so I will rectify the question: do we consider men and women equal?

There was a time when women were deprived of everything and were just considered or treated as a slave; and today is the time when women have become competition for men. Things for women have never been easy. Domestic abuse, rapes, dowry, acid attacks, female foeticide, exploitation, violence, all these crimes in which a woman quietly suffers or even if she raises her voice it is silenced or suppressed! So, do only men need to change their thinking! Well, I believe that if a woman cannot stand for another woman, then no one ever would be able to help her. We might have seen most of the times that woman bitches about another woman; then why do we tend to blame men for all the things?

Nobody is born to please someone. Yes, there is bias and prejudice in the system, but breaking it brings a change and I believe that no one is too small to make a change. Every situation has two faces, similarly it is possible nowadays that a woman is trying to take advantage of a man. Women are way too much stronger than men in every way . Hence, stop being pitiful to women because it is their time to shine. Till the time, they won’t start considering themselves strong then no one would be able to help her.

By Nisha Pagaria

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